When Does Parenting Become Fun

When the child actually responds to your parenting skills, it can be very fun. It is also fun when the child becomes aware of her environment and learns the ways of humans. When a baby is born, she has no idea what world she is being born into. It is up to the parent to teach her the ways of the human race and what we consider proper behavior. This is the big responsibility of the parent. How the child adapts to what we call the real world is directly dependent on how well you as the parent have prepared her.

There are ways to help prepare for preparing a child for the real world. I have always said that parenting comes from the heart. Good parenting comes from keen observational skills. Excellent parenting comes from careful guiding the child in the direction in which she will naturally go. One must hope that this natural direction a good thing. Supposing it is, it will lead to the true happiness of the child. This is when parenting becomes fun. When you see a lifetime of parenting from the heart, keen observational skills, and careful guidance, then you see how your hard work paid off.

This isnt to say that it will all be fun and games. There is diaper changing, potty training, numerous bath and meal times, discipline, and naptimes. All these things are important for the successful raising of a child, but the most important things, those listed above, are the most important. When you see that there is happiness and fulfillment in your childs life, you think on all the good times in the past (but not the bad!) you think that you have done a good job.

In the meantime, however, you must persevere. The child will push your limits, exhaust you to the very end, and then ask for more. They do not apologize; it is simply the nature of children. They must know the limits of the world and the people surrounding them. Otherwise, the childs education will be incomplete. You are their only resource until you turn them loose on the world.

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